can any one recomend a new head unit that has cd, bluetooth, and ipod controls.. without having to change the console, stock radio currently installed

Crutchfield.com has several units. The rest depends on what price range you're willing spend.

You can use a flip out moniter head unit. My personal favorites are the pioneer headunits. Cruthfield is a good source for finding what you need or want. Most of the time you can get it cheaper elsewhere.

i like the flip out ubits with the nav, but wont that interfere with the airconditioning

Yes, a flip out will constrict the airflow from the center vents but you don't have to have the screen constantly open if you don't want to.

I think a flip out unit would look good.